Mom used to make a jellied salad with pecans and dark cherries and I don't have a clue where the recipe is. She'd serve a Smithfield ham. She'd make her Ribbon Cookies and Aunt Blanche's Pecan-Date Cake.
I located the recipes for the cookies and the cake plus the brownies my maternal Grandmother made.
I know how to copy Mom's stuffing. I know how to make the pecan pie and the lemon chess pie.
But.......it just isn't the same if I make them instead of Mom making them.
I really miss Mom's holiday meals !!![:'(]