She works for the lds thrift store  and "goes to church" there is NO reason for us to contact the bishop on her behalf as i have previously posted, this is her 4th time being homless and EVERY time the bishop has bailed her out and into a place

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i re-read this post, and we sound mean and vindictive~~~~but i honestly have no problem with someone needing a HANDUP, but expecting a HANDOUT is what i have a problem with

 I have an issue with taht as well, and if it was just her...ley her burn baby!  LOL  The problem is that there are kids involved and they can not control the situation...I really surprised that if she is working at DI she is not already getting help....

AmyC:

 I have an issue with taht as well, and if it was just her...ley her burn baby!  LOL  The problem is that there are kids involved and they can not control the situation...I really surprised that if she is working at DI she is not already getting help....

us too, but again, she wants a HANDOUT (ie kids=money/sympathy) not a HANDUP---theres a BIG difference between needing a handup, and expecting a handout ---but this woman uses her children as pawns against their fathers so she gets what she wants, whether its limited visitation, or paying her bills or just giving her $

when we talk to the lawyer on tuesday, we are MORE then willing to pay child support, but honestly? id rather pay the 339 a month TOWARDS rent then give her the $ because she lacks any and all financial understanding(even with her accounting degree)