My husband and I always do Valentine's the day after. That way it's not super-crowded to try to get a restaurant for dinner, and if I want flowers or candy or jewelry or whatever (unlikely, but just in case), we can get them half off at the post-Valentine's sales. I know, "sounds romantic," hah - but hey, keeping more money for ourselves IS our favorite thing to do, so it works!
You can call me Anika. :)