I'm working on my fiance' to be on this... the 10 minute cleanup at night. I do cut him some slack when he's had a busy day at work on some of it...
When I was there, I spent about a week organizing and cleaning his place (he's too much of a bachelor who isn't a big cleaner, never has been)... and he knows how sore I was after all of it was done. I sent him a chore list which I think does help. It also states on there... "things that need to be done" (so I'm not sore). Got him caught up pretty much on dishes... washing them at least, not sure on him putting away, but can't change a man overnight, can you? I have the chore listed on daily, weekly, bi-weekly and monthly. In the two weeks since I've been gone, he's been doing pretty good, though somethings are falling behind.
Even his family is amazed on how things are! (and I think thankful that I am around to get him to do things)
I will say that I'm now slacking on this... but I am in the midst of organizing and packing things up for rummage sale/moving. I will be much better once moved!
I'm not confused. I'm just well mixed. ~Robert Frost
Laziness may appear attractive, but work gives satisfaction. - Anne Frank
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13
Married my Blessing 10-16-10 :)
Became an Auntie 12-10-10 :)