Thank you MazieMom! I appreciate that. I do try to keep a stiff upper lip.
I have been naughty, but not too naughty because when I looked at my budget last night I was down 1600.00 since May. I thought that was pretty good! Now.. I think in a month or two one of my cards will be paid off and I can snowball that to another one. I won't be out of debt for a very long, long time. But I feel pretty good about not getting in deeper.
Just now I had enough in my savings, 2560.00 to be exact to pay for the up coming year of daycare. Now I could have forked over 270.00 a month, but that would have been magic, or I could have done the same thing I did every year before, put it on a credit card and pay no mind.
This year I consiously saved my tax refund and put little bit towards it when I could to have it ready for the big day! That was huge.
I am trying so hard. I had to use my card one time since March for a bill of 60.00 but that is it! It was at a nice rest. and I had to do it. ;-)
Good luck with your mort. pay off, it would leave you in great way!!!!
dmc