Brandy then you were blessed with your last child. Babs

As long as it's budgeted for ahead of time and paid in cash i don't see a problem with eating out occasionally.

Babs,

My husband and I wanted three children when we began our family. It just felt right to me. After the complications with the first, he wanted to stop there but it wasn't right so I asked him to consider more. After the second and complications for both of us, he refused to have the third. Several years later, I discovered a surprise..we were expecting number three. She and I both had health issues at birth but today you would not know it looking at her.

Well worth it, I think and I trust that God will see us all through.

Brandy, I had two and then DH was ready to stop. 10 years later, I was pregnant, not planned then had a stillborn son at 31 weeks. We had three more after that .DH was terrified but  Ok with that and I am thankful. G"d knows His plans for us. We just think that we know. I do believe that He plans our kids before they were formed in us. And He plans when we arent to have children. His ways are best.  Babs