Pat:Again, the point is not what we want to spend money on, spend it however you want to. The point is that the little things we don't think much about, can add up to quite a bit over a period of time.
I think a secondary point is also to be aware of how much actually can be saved by doing things a little differently.
I know when DH was laid off for a year in 2003-04, our family did quite a few things "differently". I would never have considered buying lunch at the hospital cafeteria in Idaho, even tho I worked rotating shifts & it was often available. Our budget then required that I take my own lunch, in order for us to be able to pay the bills with a significantly reduced cash flow. With both of us working, I can afford to buy lunch at work once in a while, but I would rather take my own & use the $60 elsewhere - taking DH out for a milkshake, or something like that.
While DH was laid off, 2 of our children worked as lifeguards at the local pool. As a result, they were able to pay their own college fees & high school fees. Both of them, on their own, chose to start showering after their work shift at the pool, which dramatically lowered the water bill by cutting in half the people showering in the household.
During DH's layoff, I didn't use the clothes dryer at all - I hung my scrubs on hangars to dry. I use the dryer for my scrub pants now, & I still hang all whites & my scrub tops to air dry, but if we were in a cash flow crunch again, I know how to reduce that bill. For me it doesn't matter whether it takes me 5 minutes or 15 to hang the laundry. When I had to pinch every penny, I would have done it even if it took an hour, because it let us remain financially solvent. I was working 2 jobs at the time, since DH wasn't working at all. Now both of us are working, & I don't HAVE to do laundry this way, but I choose to, because I want to save the extra $$ for retirement.
Since we never know when life will deal the next "low blow", it's nice to be prepared with a full arsenal of frugal responses.