Lee:
What helped me was sitting down and writing out our income and expenses, no cheating here. Once you have it in writing it is a real eye opener and will also give you a starting point.
Yep, and write it down in ink. Or as I do type it up!!!
1.) Baby Step #1: Emergency Fund $1,000 (fully funded 01/25/08)
2.) Baby Step #2: Beginnning Balance 01/01/08 $78,492/Current Balance $25,392
Paid Off $53,100 in debt since January 2008!!! GOD IS SO GOOD!!!