Guess I must differ from the average. I think that you can still work to meet your obligations and be financially independent. If I had to have enough money to support me (and those I'm responsible to/for) for the rest of my/our lives, that isn't a realistic goal. Don't see how I could ever make that much.
But, to be in control of my finances makes me feel independent. Sure, I have to work. But, if I miss a paycheck I can still live just like I'm living today. I'm not owned/controlled by the job. I have options available to me if I lose my job or don't like my job.
Same thing with other possessions. I'm not controlled by my house (and it's mortgage). What's owed (if anything) is easily handled within my income. i.e. I'm in control of the house, it's not in control of me.
Does that seem to make sense?