Depends on the day!! Overall, I think a 5. But often, it's more like a 3 and I do swing the other way too and would say as high as 7 or so. Depends on what state of mind I'm in!
Like others, I am trying to do better and have learned a lot. I am nowhere near as frugal as others here but I too am ok with that. I have learned to stay within my means and am working hard to get out of debt and save for the future. We are doing so much better than ever before in that I feel so much more in control than ever before.
I have never been successful in anything (frugality, weight loss, organizing the house, etc) if I go over the top and don't allow for any deviation from the plan in place. With frugality, no allowing for an extra at the grocery store, an occasional take out treat, a fun family activity, etc just means that one day, we'll get frustrated with not doing anything and overpend to an extreme! Lack of self-discipline maybe.
Anyway, while we work to achieve our financial goals, we allow for splurges, treats, etc. But I am learning all the time about ways I can do things for less and those are the best lessons!