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&lt;img src="http://community.stretcher.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=129931" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Do's and Don'ts for Tough Times</title><link>http://community.stretcher.com/blogs/stretcher/archive/2009/06/23/do-s-and-don-ts-for-tough-times.aspx#129666</link><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 19:08:10 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">fda86a45-d6cb-4af5-9188-2e89367e0f5e:129666</guid><dc:creator>redw4552</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;WOW! Such a great post. &amp;nbsp;These are things that I have been doing, but it's great to see someone else write it out.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Have a great day, Gary.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Shawn&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;img src="http://community.stretcher.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=129666" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Do's and Don'ts for Tough Times</title><link>http://community.stretcher.com/blogs/stretcher/archive/2009/06/23/do-s-and-don-ts-for-tough-times.aspx#129663</link><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 19:02:03 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">fda86a45-d6cb-4af5-9188-2e89367e0f5e:129663</guid><dc:creator>cheapChic</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Hmmm didn't even know some of the tips cool great information...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;img src="http://community.stretcher.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=129663" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Do's and Don'ts for Tough Times</title><link>http://community.stretcher.com/blogs/stretcher/archive/2009/06/23/do-s-and-don-ts-for-tough-times.aspx#128825</link><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 18:00:49 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">fda86a45-d6cb-4af5-9188-2e89367e0f5e:128825</guid><dc:creator>Millers Grain House</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;So nicely stated Gary!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We have been without a regular paycheck since 2003! Since Aug of 2005, only 4 checks total to date! Now that could be a stressor for some marriages....but....&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I've got to say that our marriage is actually stronger than EVER because we've adhered to many of the things you mentioned....so financial woes don't have mean a marital split and stress.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Once determination to not 'bail out' on each other is established...With Faith, Love and Hope, people can get through the toughest of money times!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Great practical advice Gary!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;img src="http://community.stretcher.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=128825" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Do's and Don'ts for Tough Times</title><link>http://community.stretcher.com/blogs/stretcher/archive/2009/06/23/do-s-and-don-ts-for-tough-times.aspx#128819</link><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:10:25 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">fda86a45-d6cb-4af5-9188-2e89367e0f5e:128819</guid><dc:creator>juju_mommy</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Amen! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I would add that those of us still blessed with employment, that we should be very thankful to have it. I am constantly thanking God for blessing me with a good job. It isn't my dream job, by far (in fact, I cant' stand it LOL), but it pays well, has great benefits and about as much job stability as I can get. I do my best to NEVER take that for granted. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I think it's very important that you mentioned dealing with a spouse who has lost a job. I haven't had to deal with this situation personally, but I know of many friends and even several on the Dollar Stretcher forums who are going through very tough times in their marriage due to current financial stress. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Have a blessed day,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Julie &lt;/p&gt;
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