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Step Away From the Computer

How many of you have heard the term 'shopping therapy'? That's when you go shopping to make yourself feel better. Maybe you're fighting the blahs. Maybe a bad day at work. Maybe you just broke up with a significant other. A little time shopping will make you feel better.

The subject came up when I was doing a radio interview with Gail & Keith at 600KCOL in Colorado http://www.600kcol.com/cc-common/podcast/single_podcast.html?podcast=keith_and_gail.xml We were discussing ways to replace 'shopping therapy'. Gail challenged me to give listeners the benefits of shopping therapy without running up their credit cards. How could someone spend hours at the mall without spending money? The answer is obvious. Don't bring any money (or credit cards). I suggested going to the mall with $5 in their purse or wallet. You could 'window shop' without risk. Visit the food court for a soda. Window shop some more. Keith agreed that Gail couldn't get in too much trouble doing that.

Then I mentioned that some people can get in just as much trouble surfing shopping sites on the net and brought up "The Barbershop" post http://community.stretcher.com/blogs/stretcher/archive/2008/01/10/the-barbershop.aspx My solution was to turn off the computer. That's when Gail broke into her best police officer voice - "step away from the computer".  I couldn't help but break up. She had it exactly right. Sometimes the absolute best thing that we can do is to step away from the computer. Don't flirt with temptation. Walk away from it. And, it's always best if you can do it with a smile on your face!

(btw, I usally enjoy doing interviews. This one with Gail & Keith was especially enjoyable. You might want to check them out.)

Keep on stretching those dollars!

Gary

Published Jan 28 2008, 01:12 PM by Gary
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Comments

 

Meredith_from_Merchant_Ships said:

I have to confess that retail therapy is always an effective mood-lifter for me!

I generally take myself to the neighborhood thrift store, where I'm limited in the damage I can do.

However, I find that any kind of shopping-as-solution has the danger of creating discontent.  Maybe I don't buy anything now, but I leave with new "wants" and even "needs" that I struggle to dismiss later.

So even if you leave the money at home, you may not be leaving scott free.

January 29, 2008 9:56 PM
 

Gary said:

Meredith makes a very good point. Even if you don't pull out the plastic or spend your cash, just cruising a mall or catalog can create new wants. And, sooner or later we'll need to either fight off those wants or succumb to them.

So maybe Gail did have the best answer. "Step away from the computer"!

January 30, 2008 12:22 PM

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For more than 25 years, Gary Foreman has worked to manage money effectively. Prior to starting The Dollar Stretcher, he was a financial planner and purchasing manager. While helping clients manage their hard earned money as a financial planner, he applied commonsense, time-tested techniques during the turbulent 1980’s. The experience convinced him that you didn’t need to hit the lottery to accumulate significant wealth. Following that, Gary had an opportunity to learn more about how to get the best value for a dollar spent in the corporate world. As the Purchasing Manager for a computer manufacturer, he was responsible for supervising over $10 million in annual purchases. Gary began The Dollar Stretcher website <www.TheDollarStretcher.com> and newsletters in April 1996. Over 300,000 readers benefit from the time and money saving ideas presented in The Dollar Stretcher newsletters each week. His mission is to help people "Live Better for Less". He also provides private label newsletters for companies wishing to provide money saving information for their clients and/or prospects. Gary lives in Florida along with his wife of thirty years and their two children. Much of his time is spent working with the men's ministry of his church. One of their ongoing projects is the "Holy Smoke BBQ" which sells bbq on Friday nights with the profits going to support local foster kids and orphans. When he has a free moment you’ll find him restoring a Checker station wagon nicknamed “Two Ton” or cruising in a '65 Impala SS Convertible with doo-wops playing in the background.

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